mistakes applying to grad school

Applying To Grad School? Are You Doing It For The Right Reasons

I thought I would write something for all the newbies to this blog and especially to those who are only still in those first few weeks of considering grad school and have come across this blog, somehow, to find out more about grad school and what’s involved in getting in.

Why do you want to go to graduate school?

It is a simple question, but one that deserves a lot of thought. I see too many students with poorly justified motivations for wanting to go to graduate school.

Regardless of whether or not you have an excellent GPA and outstanding standardized test scores, if you don’t have a clear reason for going to graduate school, you will probably not be able to convince anyone on the graduate selection committee or your potential graduate supervisor that you are the person they should choose for their program.

The purpose behind graduate studies in most fields is to turn promising students into skilled specialists who are well suited to a specific range of careers. Therefore, it is really important to consider whether an online Ph.D. degree or some other advanced degree will really help you achieve your long-term goals.

Many students expect that they will figure out what they want to do either during or after graduate school, but that’s really not the ideal way to approach it. You really need to work this out BEFORE  you apply to graduate school, because the success of your applications will depend partly on your ability to explain in your personal statement, cover letter and even pre-selection interviews, why a particular advanced degree is needed for your specific career aspirations.

Picking a graduate program that matches your objectives (career objectives or the type of training you want) determines how much success you have in getting into a graduate or professional program. Don’t underestimate the importance of this match.

Consider each potential graduate program and determine whether completing that program will actually help get you from point A (the here and now) to point B (eventual career). To be able to answer that, you had better figure out what you want. Read more on clarifying your expectations of graduate school before you begin.

If you do not have the least bit of an idea of what you want to do with your life, you may want to considering getting some career counselling or life coaching. Or, perhaps some reflection and a relevant book on the topic might be enough to draw up a reasonable career plan for yourself over the next 5 to 10 years.

Whatever you do to figure out your future career, do not just assume that graduate school is the obvious option or for that matter, the only option.

Also, check out this related article I wrote for MyGraduateSchool.com on choosing the right graduate program.

Conformity Has Its Place When Applying to Graduate School

I often tell students who are thinking of graduate school that they need to do some things to set themselves apart from the crowd. The idea is a general one, and it acknowledges that nearly all of the applicants who get accepted into good graduate programs are exceptional in at least one or two respects… or, at least, they are perceived as being exceptional by those who make the decisions about which applicants are to be accepted.

This is just common sense, you say? I agree. Still, I sometimes meet students who don’t quite appreciate the finer nuances behind the idea that they should stand out, or else they don’t understand the limits of this notion, or the appropriate contexts in which to apply it. As a result, they do indeed come across as being very different from the vast majority of their peers – but not in a positive way.

Clearly, there are bad ways to stand out, and no one needs me to explain the obvious ones, such as being more loud, obnoxious, or rude than others, or more immature, or more pretentious. If you’re a jerk, I can’t help you change that. You’ll just have to hope it doesn’t get in the way of your success (but, it probably will). What I’m trying to do in today’s blog is to help those of you who aren’t jerks to avoid inadvertently coming across to others in a way that leads them to miss noticing what a fine person and excellent grad-school prospect you may actually be. My aim is not so much to help you make a good impression, but to help you avoid making a bad impression.

I should clarify what I mean when stating that grad school applicants want to be perceived as “standing apart from the crowd.” The idea applies to at least a few general contexts:

The first context is that of enabling your current professors to discover your talents (especially those that are relevant to academics and research) and any positive character attributes you possess that are superior to those of most other students (let’s assume that you have a few). Many suggestions of how to stand out in these ways are discussed in previous blogs posted here, in various articles that have appeared on the MyGraduateSchool.com website, and in the book Graduate School: Winning Strategies for Getting In”.

I’m sure I’ll have lots more to say about this aspect of standing apart from the crowd in future blogs and articles. For now, however, the point is simply that you will eventually need letters of recommendation to support your applications, and these will probably come from professors who know you. So, you need to make sure they perceive you as being superior to most of your peers in some important respects.

Like it or not, its important to realize that comments or behaviors that are innocuous to you and people you know may still evoke some disdain in others who may have different attitudes about certain things. For example, some students underestimate the extent to which their appearance or outward behavioral tendencies affect the attitudes that certain professors have about them. Its true that the general culture of most universities is very liberal with respect to expressions of individuality through the types of clothes or hairstyles, piercings or tattoos, that some students (and some professors) sport. Some students wear outlandish clothes or garish makeup, and that’s all fine, and in most contexts it doesn’t bother anyone. But, students who stand out in this way may find it harder to earn respect based on any truly relevant strengths they possess. Perhaps this isn’t fair or rational, but it is a fairly reliable feature of human psychology. When we form an impression of someone from a few sketchy interactions, that person’s most salient traits or characteristics can often obscure other traits they possess that are more pertinent.

A second context in which a grad school applicant should stand out is in the impressions created by their actual application materials. Transcripts and standardized test scores are objective factors that are indicative of one’s academic abilities, but they don’t say anything about the person, so they give no clue as to how pleasant it would be to have the student around and how rewarding it would be to work with him or her.

I have previously commented about the importance of personal characteristics in swaying the decisions of admission committees and prospective graduate supervisors. Some of the people who make the decisions about your application may care more about your personality and character than they do about your grades or test scores. This is definitely an area in which you need to stand apart from the other applicants with whom you are competing, especially if you are trying to overcome any weakness in your grades.

So, how do those decision-makers try to formulate an idea of who you are and what it would be like to have you in the program? A typical grad school application includes a few components that can (and should) contribute in important ways to how the admission committee or prospective graduate supervisor perceives the personality of an applicant. The most important of these is the personal statement, but it may also include a cover letter that accompanies the application, or any substantial email correspondence the applicant has with a prospective graduate supervisor prior to the application date.

Although one hallmark of a good personal statement is an interesting story and some originality, it still has to be concisely written and it must provide compelling reasons why you are applying to the program. If your personal statement does not provide information the reader is looking for, it is guaranteed to make a bad impression. Good judgment is essential (don’t use disturbing or intensely emotional content in a personal statement).

It is also important to observe conventions in terms of format and general content. Believe me, someone who has to read all the materials from a few dozen applicants does not want to come across anything unexpected. Interesting, yes, unexpected and nonconventional, definitely not.

A cover letter should have a particular format that will make it look “normal” to those who read it. If you don’t know what is conventional format for a cover letter, then find out. Its not hard; in fact, most people get them often in their regular mail. Do not make the mistake of assuming that an unconventional format will make your cover letter stand out from the crowd and impress the reader. The effect would be just the opposite. Remember, cover letters help to form first impressions, and you do not want to give the impression that you are ignorant, nonconforming, or careless.

Without a doubt, there is no context in which a student’s personality is more on display than during a personal interview, which will be a situation that many good applicants face at some point. The interview might be with the admission committee, or with a prospective supervisor. Not all programs conduct interviews, but it is the norm in some disciplines, and in the most competitive programs of almost any discipline.

Most of the things you want to avoid during an interview are also things to avoid in your personal statement or other correspondence. For example, avoid bringing up controversial subjects. You don’t know who will be evaluating your statement or interviewing you, and you don’t know what attitudes they have. You do not want to risk offending anyone. Avoid politics and anything that would reveal your own political biases.

Trying to be humorous or cute is also a big mistake. You only risk offending the members of the admissions committee. They are likely to also question how serious you are about getting into their program.

Students also sometimes make the mistake of disparaging others when explaining the consequences of their own previous mistakes or shortcomings. Never, ever, blame a bad grade you received on the professor!

In general, over-exuberance should be avoided. Someone who behaves effusively is often perceived as insincere, or even manipulative. (No one will be convinced to accept you into their graduate programs because you say that you’re “really, really, really, passionate” about your field of interest). The point is not to avoid appearing cheerful, because cheerfulness is a good thing, and people generally like others who are cheerful. Just be careful not to overdo it, or else others may assume that you are being fake.